I am fortunate. I seem to have been born with confidence. As a child, I entered most challenges feeling confident, knowing that a positive outcome was possible, and even likely. But, I realize we aren’t all like this. I have studied those who have turned around their lives by changing their level of personal confidence. There are many people who have gone from a high level of insecurity to becoming very comfortable in their own skin and achieving success and confidence like they never imagined. These people know that their beliefs become reality.
It is absolutely critical to learn the habit of self-confidence. If it doesn’t come naturally, don’t worry. It’s a habit and you can learn it! Confident people are easy to be around, they increase energy in a situation. With increased confidence, we persuade others to follow our lead.
What do you believe about yourself? Your beliefs create your reality. What are you saying about yourself?
You spend the most time with yourself. Whatever you think about yourself, those messages you are repeating to yourself are going to be the most meaningful and impactful.
Consider the way you treat yourself and the messages you repeat, and begin to change them now. Replace negative messages with positive words of encouragement. Begin to treat yourself with the kindness and respect you would others. Compassionate self-talk is the first step to creating confidence!
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Michelle Sears says
Chalene,
Thank you so much for all that you do. I have been a fan of yours for the past 4 years and I can say you have helped me with my fitness goals. But more than that you have helped me become a more positive person. I love you up beat and energetic attitude it has really inspired me to be more wild and crazy.
Also I’m glad I found this site because now I can learn even more from you. I have a self esteem building website because I feel compelled to help other women as well. I too was born with great confidence but unfortunately I lost it somewhere between age 12 and 13 and it took me years to find it again.
But it because of people like you that I was able to regain my confidence and that’s why I want to help others too. So I put together my website, host workshops and plan on releasing audio programs as well.
So thank you so much for being an inspiration to me and countless others.
Take care,
Michelle